Author: Dastouri MJ

I’m not parenting yet.

Yet I think the fact to let the next generation feel a “good morning” and the “bright day”, it is quite a bit challenging.

How to prepare everything in advance to let their youth energy of days flow through these well prepared structures.

Maybe they need to be alone for some time to feel the “good morning”

Certainly the life holds its up and downs throughout time and the youth are exposed to time anyway.

Everything on its timeline

It really takes time and energy to make me understand that everything is good on its own time in my life

Why to ask and be in hurry for things that yet their time didn’t arrive yet.

Nature is the best consultant “The lake house”

It is true that some things in life take time, and that we cannot always control when or how things happen. However, it is also important to remember that we have the power to influence and shape our own lives through our actions and choices. While we cannot control everything that happens to us, we can take steps to pursue our goals and work towards the things we want in life.

It is also important to recognize that sometimes waiting for something to happen can be challenging, and it can be easy to become discouraged or lose motivation. In these situations, it can be helpful to focus on the things that we can control, such as our attitudes and behaviors, and to find ways to stay positive and motivated.

Ultimately, it is important to have patience and to trust that everything will come to us in its own time, while also taking action and making the most of the opportunities that come our way.

Timing

Sometimes it’s you wanting things. Then there you go you going to face slow downs and then you ask yourself why

Sometimes you have to wait and move with lower pace, if you really want it you should be a strong enough to be patient for it

To be pleasant enough

To enter each other’s world is people s daily routine.

The question for us is how pleasantly we prepared ourselves to be explored.

The kingdom which you are the king of it, how well it is groomed?!

How much are you ready to host others?

To understand and greet them

Read “The Art of Influence: Persuading Others Begins With You” by Chris Widener. Link here

He clearly mentions in the book about the art of fishing not hunting. to be the person of undivided integrity. To Put people’s interest before your interest and to spend well for education of others when you receive well.

Here are some key points from the book:

• Influence is the ability to affect the thoughts, feelings, and actions of others.
• To be influential, you must first have a clear understanding of your own values, beliefs, and goals, and be confident in your ability to achieve them.
• To persuade others, you must be able to clearly communicate your ideas and present them in a compelling manner.
• To be effective at influencing others, you must be able to connect with them on an emotional level and build trust and rapport.
• Empathy and understanding are key to building successful relationships and persuading others.
• To be a successful influencer, you must be willing to listen to others and be open to their ideas and perspectives.
• To persuade others, you must be able to clearly communicate the benefits of your ideas and how they can help achieve the other person’s goals.

How many people did it take to make me like this?

In taxi from wave after haircut to uschod to go to Smalivichi for airport for sister

TaXi driver very spontaneous and somehow careless about to miss me near the pick up point, to the degree i had to wave and jump to stop him.

Just noticed him not looking to the map to get prepared in advance to get to the right lane

I was prepared and gave him the fare. He is young

And all of a sudden bam! Flashback to my 20s where i was spontaneous to many business people back in UAE and I wonder how many people were patient with me. They all formed the “me” sitting here.

What about parents? Lifetime patience. Huh?

There I go in the stream of my thoughts. Parents and their patience toward my actions. What’s the best way to give back? to be consciously thankful to the universe!

I got a question raised in my head about today experience with young taxi driver and that is:

Why does Young generation act immature?

There are many reasons why young people may act immaturely. Some possible factors could include:

1. Developmental stage: It is important to remember that young people are still in the process of growing and developing, and may not yet have fully developed the skills and abilities of an adult. This can sometimes lead to immature behavior.
2. Lack of life experience: Young people often have less life experience than adults, and may not yet have developed the skills and perspective needed to handle certain situations in a mature manner.
3. Peer pressure: Young people may act immaturely in order to fit in with their peers or to gain acceptance.
4. Lack of guidance: Young people may act immaturely if they have not received adequate guidance or support from adults in their lives.
5. Stress or other mental health issues: Immature behavior can sometimes be a sign of underlying stress or other mental health issues, such as anxiety or depression.

It is important to remember that immaturity is a normal part of development, and that young people often mature and become more responsible as they grow older and gain life experience.

The other subject begs the question here after what I saw, is:

By average how many people did influence my life?

It is difficult to quantify the average number of people who influence one person, as it can vary greatly depending on an individual’s personal and professional relationships, as well as their social and cultural context. Some people may be more influenced by a small number of close relationships, while others may be influenced by a larger group of people in their lives.

It is also important to note that people are not always equally influenced by those around them. Some individuals may be more influential or have a greater impact on others, while others may have less influence. Additionally, people’s level of influence can change over time and can be influenced by various factors, such as their personality, communication style, and level of expertise or authority.

Ultimately, the number of people who influence an individual can vary significantly, and it is important to recognize and consider the influence of a range of individuals in one’s life.

How to Love

Love is a broad subject, to love is to let them flourish.

To love is to help

To Love is to be patient and let them do the thinking and we be the light.

To Love is the self control.

To Love is to contain yourself. To Know theyself and deal with mental and psychological instruments.

To Love you need to have power.

To Love you must have vision of better future.

Troubles are the motivation of moving toward them so melt them to love them and solve them

to be continued…

I asked for Strength and God (Alive Highly Responsive Super Intelligent accurately Fair Universe) gave me difficulties to make me strong.

I asked for wisdom and God gave me problems to solve.

I asked for courage and God gave me dangers to overcome.

I asked for Love and God gave me troubled people to help.